Asha Parker
The idea of in just a few short months, heading back, and for some of you first entering, your A Better Chance Member school is certainly a daunting one. The months leading up to my own arrival on my high school campus, were full of intense preparation for all that I would encounter for those four years of my life. I was warned about culture shock, and the dangerous effects of procrastination and peer pressure. I too often heard about the struggles and hardships that I would face, but failed to recognize that there would be ways to cope and manage. Words of advice from one scholar to the next:
Freshman Year: It is most important to remember that you must keep an open mind. Do NOT close yourself to the knowledge you will gain simply by listening to and learning from the experiences of others. You will encounter culture shock, and individuals who seemingly come from worlds completely opposite to your own. Still, it will only prove to help you become a well-rounded person. Don’t be afraid to speak to someone you could never imagine yourself as friends with. Join different clubs, and attend meetings. Get involved!
Sophomore Year: Once you’ve survived your freshman year, and gotten acclimated to the new environment, you must remember that you should still work just as hard, and not get too laid-back. Stay focused.
Junior Year: College crack down time… junior year just may be the most important of your entire high school career. Grades matter now more than ever. Colleges are looking for individuals that have made the most of their time at their high schools, and have joined clubs, played sports and been the leaders of various teams and groups. Balancing usual school work and commitments, with studying for the SAT and completing college apps may sound nearly impossible. But remember- being able to manage your time wisely will be your greatest tool. Beware of Mr. Procrastination.
Senior Year: Sure, by senior year, you will have come a long way, and the realization that it is all almost over, will be a relieving one. Yet, it is too easy to become caught up, and forget that though you are very near the end, you’ve still got some ways to go. Continue to work hard, and finish strong.
So, this is it. In a few short months, you will be stepping onto the grounds of your A Better Chance member school. If you now have any doubts at all, get rid of them. If you are suddenly regretting the decision you’ve made, shake the feeling. If you are completely overwhelmed by the possibility of so many things that can go wrong, stop now and take a deep breath.
Trust me when I say, it won’t always be easy, but you WILL get through it, and it will be worthwhile!
Best Wishes,
Asha Parker, Class of 2011
